Saturday, October 30, 2010

Dinsosaurs, Oh My!

We uncovered a truly awesome "Dinosaur!" exhibit being staged at the Landscape park in the main Botanical Garden, and thought we'd spend a lazy weekend afternoon taking in the exhibit. Apparently thousands of other Kyivans also thought this was a good idea, since the weather had warmed up quite a bit (this was 9/17, after a week of freezing temperatures.) So we fought our way through, and didn't get too many great photos since it was uncontrolled chaos. There were signs everywhere warning people not to touch certain dinosaurs or climb on them. As you can imagine, in the absence of rigorous policing, this was completely ignored. Yes, even by us. But doesn't she look scary?We are working on our posing. This is a definite improvement - in the photo I took just before this she was trying to say "Cheese!" and her lips are loooking a little odd. This was at the entrance to the exhibit, and the crowds prevented us from getting much closer.This is an exmaple of why Kyiv is known as the "City of Flowers." Every spring and summer they spend inordinate amounts of city resources and human capital to create these lovely flower pictures. I would be more impressed if it weren't for the fact that the central government was constantly illegally selling park land in the city for development. Ah, the dichotomy of Ukraine!

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Becoming 2

In the interest if equality, I should point out that Miss G started crawling around 6 months, and by this time (late July - 7 months) was doing a great Marine-crawl. Hands forward and then stomach drops and she frog-crawls forward.


Becoming

I can't believe what a difference a year makes in the life of a little one. Miss S is such a personality now - mostly for better, though sometimes for worse (the toddler-ness of it all!) Here are two examples of her personality. In the first she has found my boots and is proudly showing off her inner fashionista, complete with Disney Princesses. She's really starting to get into make-believe play, with lots of inventiveness. These photos are from July, but as I write this in October, I think that school has helped a lot, too. She has more elaborate scenarios, although I definitely see the influence of television, where she is repeating what she has seen and incorporating it into her regular play. Her vocabulary is also off the charts - not that that shold surprise anyone who knows her parents... Her Russian is really improving, too, with school.
Below is another great example of her interaction. Here she's helping Daddy make garlic naan by beating the dough before we set it to rise. And for the record, the flour everywhere is not her fault, it's how Daddy cooks - very intensely. And the naan was delicious!

Ultramarine!


As the weather in Kyiv is pretty abysmal more than half of the year, there are a lot of great indoor playground for little kids. You do have to pay about $3/hour, but it's safe and fun and totally great for parents who want to hang out while their kids tire themselves out. When I was back on maternity leave during snowmageddon, I really wished we had more of these in the States, since bundling two kids into starfish outfits and enduring the bitter cold is not my idea of fun. Nor is hanging out in a mall with no playground.


Ultramarine is a two-story affair with a giant slide, an inflatable bouncy pad, 2 ball pits and numerous puzzles and little houses and small plastic things to play with. The kids always leave sweaty and exhausted. We went this time in the summer, and are joined by many of S's and G's friends, as you can see by the fact that the baby appears to be the most fun toy in the whole place. And that's Karyn in the background, my awesome Body Blast teacher, who has helped me shed two clothing sizes after the baby - love you, Karyn!

Prague Conference on Justice Reform 7/20/10

I was invited last minute to speak at a conference held by the American Bar Association in Prague at the CEELI Institute (shown here, it is also where I stayed.) Why not spend a few lazy July days in a beautiful European city? My talk (on technical assistance in criminal justice reform, and why failure isn't always bad in this sphere) is beside the point. I got to meet Justice Sandra Day O'Connor, who said that my talk was very good. Cool, if you're a dork like me.

I didn't take a lot of photos, and as I was travelling alone, I am not in any. But I did manage to get some architecture, a photo of the CEELI Institue and one at the absolutely sumptuous Ambassador's Residence (that's David Vaughn of the Ukraine Rule of Law program in the front, and Justice O'Connor sitting down.) I was a little too shy to ask her for a photo together, but ah, well!

Siblings are good for something...

Even if it's only a pillow!

Sunday, October 03, 2010

4th of July Picnic

(The photo above is just an add-in showcasing the joys of having two girls. We can't wait until they are both teenagers. So stylish!)

The American Chamber of Commerce here does a big picnic at the Spartak stadium each year with free ice cream and soda, and the chance to buy lots of good BBQ and beer. So we dressed the girls in the matching yellow and blue colors of the Ukrainian flag (not on purpose) and headed over. Guess which of the food products are daughter most enjoyed? Hint - see the uneaten plate of cole slaw in the background?
Thank heavens the field was contained, since it was pretty chaotic, with kids and people running all over the place. I suppose sometimes it was confusing for the younger set, as here we see our daughter clinging to our friend Terry, who is obviously not daddy. I guess it's any port in a storm!

Mobility and strength training

Video from June 29 - Our little bub has decided to follow in her precocious big sister's footsteps (literally.) Here she is showing the bum lift that led shortly to the Marine crawl that led to the freedom of mobility in July. And also the stress for her parents of cleaning the 8 million choking hazards that constitute our floors here.

Life in Kyiv - What we do at home


Here are some shots of sisterly love, taken in early summer, so G is about 7 months. The sisters do get on well, with big showering little with love, and little, now that she's mobile, following big around with fascination and adoration in her eyes. Of course, since June things have altered slightly, now that the little one can start to poke and follow and take toys. We sometimes see less than sisterly reactions from the big sister, but hey - she's only 3, right?
And below is a typical dinner at the Mayhew household. Dad is a great cook, and we try to eat together whenever we can (M is at camp here, but you can see his chair.) And a shot of the high chair crowd, as well. It's never dull, I'll tell you that. Just getting 5 people to the same table at the same time is a feat worthy of award.

10 Years of Service

In January of 2010 I celebrated 10 years of service with the State Department. Being a large bureaucracy, I didn't get my certificate (and stylish pin) until the June 4 Awards Ceremony at the Ambassador's residence. The only photo from my camera is blurry, but I have the professional one at work, and I'll replace this with that one at some point. But here Ambassador Tefft has handed over the award, and my buddy Rob N in the audience is cracking jokes about me wearing the pin to work on Monday. Which I did not. But perhaps I'll festoon my Marine Corps Ball gown with the various pins and medals I have collected during my decade of indentured servitude?

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Las Vegas and Disney

Daddy went to the U.S. to meet Nana and Grandad in June, leaving the rest of us with school, work and playgroup. The original plan was to have them visit us, but it was prohibitively expensive, unless you can find a good deal. So they met halfway, and I think Aaron needed a break, anyway! They spent a few days in Los Angeles, and then some time in Las Vegas, where none of them had ever been. I've got some highlight photos here, guess which one earned Daddy the most "street cred" with the younger set?Looks like Lance is world-famous - being interviewed on the big screen.They look born to it! What a great vacation.And just for fun, the two youngest kids, just being goofy with mom, and sporting Earth Day attire.

Kaniv- The Grave of Taras Shevchenko

(S looking dutifully somber at the gravesite after laying the flowers that Daddy purchased at the bottom of the stairs.)


This post should be more appropriately titled "Why Ukraine needs a Ukrainians With Disabilities Act." We had a good time, but it was not a stroller friendly event. We finally located the actual gravesite and park by, once again, asking someone for directions. A had found on the web that there was a bus service, but once again, we were fooled. There is a bus, but only to the bottom of the aptly named Mt. Tarasoba (aptly named as the grave is for Taras Schevchenko.) You still have to go up 143 steps - we know that's how many there were as the nice salesman at the bottom had lovely wooden bookmarks that commemorated this. He was the same one that looked at us blankly when we asked if a bus took you to the top. Thankfully, the steps were well-maintained - in fact, they were repainting the bannisters - and were in sets of 12 steps each. This way I could take S by the hand, and G on my hip and do them in manageable style, while Daddy returned the stroller to the car and caught up. The steps were through a lovely forest, and it turned out to be quite a nice walk. Halfway up there was a fountain, which for S was the best part of the trip. She played there on the way up, and then again on the way down, when we were standing under the overhang since it started drizzling again. Of course, though, despite the pleasant walk, there's always a catch. When we got to the top, they were renovating. They had taped off the main path, so we asked two babushki how to get to the monument. They pointed to the left - and we dutifully followed that way, until we ran into more tape. Finally, out of frustration, we just ducked under the original tape and stepped over the freshly-laid concrete. I think you get the picture here as G and I sit on the steps surrounded by construction. The view reminded me of the view from Mt. Vernon near DC, along the banks of the Potomac. In this photo, you can see the future tourist center, which was being built. I was pleasantly surprised by this investment in infrastructure.G and I are also dutifully somber as we ponder the great words of Ukrainian's greatest poet, and the first to really write in the Ukrainian language.

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Kaniv- Finding a Tourist Site in Ukraine

Well, we're now up to the next trip, the town of Kaniv on July 24. Aaron chose this from his internet trolling for day trips, and has been bugging me for a year and half to go. I finally relented. As from our last trip, the GPS denied Kaniv's existence, so I googled it and found the coordinates of the city, which we entered into the GPS. We're so dynamic in our use of technology!

However, that only got us as far as the actual town, which is about 2 hours southeast of Kyiv, on the banks of the Dnipro River. So these pictures are from our first pit stop, at the Kaniv Football (Soccer) Club grounds, where we had a picnic and fed the kids, since it was already close to 2 PM. Here is the football field/pitch. Little G loves her a good picnic, especially when surrounded by empty beer bottles and cigarette butts!The beauty of having small children is that they really don't care where you take them or what you do. (Reinforcing this point is the absence of M on many of our trips, although in this case he was in the States at Kooch I Ching.) So they loved the decrepit football grounds, since they had playtime/training equipment. Much of it was broken, but it is the same stuff that we have in the park across the road from our apartment. So we played for an hour, and simultaneously got our exercise!
Once refreshed, we began the process of driving around asking for directions and trying to find our ultimate goal. We were distracted along the way when we located the (obligatory in this part of the world) WWII memorial. Figuring it was a great opportunity for S to work off some energy and run around, we got out of the car. There was a wedding going on, so S got to see a polyester-meringue-clad bride, which made her day. She also saw a Lenin statue, which had less of an impression on all of us.Here is the mother with child at the WWII Memorial. As you reached her, there was a great view of the river and less nice view of parts of the city.S is reading out the names of those from the region who died in the war. Ukraine lost the largest percentage of its population of any country during the war, a fact that is often forgotten, or wrapped up in the Soviet statistics. Even little Kaniv, a medium-sized town, had a few hundred names, and many times the same last names in a row, signifying brothers and fathers dying together. It is really a sad legacy and much closer to the Ukrainian psyche now than WWII is in the U.S.You can see us walking back to the car past the flowerbed.And it started to sprinkle. Unfortunately, our umbrella carrier was a bit short, so those of us over three feet tall got wet. But she was happy...

Pereyaslav-Khmelnitsky Pt. 3

The kids loved the big, blue church, although when we went inside it was hard to convey the necessary sense of solemnity to the toddler. And with her current accent, she kept saying "It's a big blue shursh."
All of the girls taking a break from the heat of the day, enjoying the beautiful gardens. Our big girl looks like a fairytale princess here, wandering down the lane to the cottage in the dell. So idyllic!And one final lovely photo of the interior of a Ukrainian home. Enjoy!